Planning a wedding in St. Louis
Missouri marriage licenses come from a county recorder of deeds, carry no waiting period, and go void thirty days after issue — but the online application is only open to applicants who live in that county or city, so an out-of-town couple has to apply in person, and the City of St. Louis is an independent city with its own recorder entirely separate from St. Louis County. The bigger trap is the state line: the metro spills into Illinois at Belleville, Alton and Grafton, and a Missouri license is worthless for a ceremony on the Illinois bank, so buy the license in the state where you will actually say the vows. Note too that the Saint Louis Art Museum stays open to the public during the day and only releases Sculpture Hall after 6pm, and not on Fridays at any hour — which fixes your ceremony time, and strikes one of the three weekend nights, before you have chosen anything else.
- When to marry — September and October are the steadiest months, dry and mild once the July and August heat and humidity break, with late April into early June the spring alternative — though that window falls inside Missouri's severe-thunderstorm season, so an outdoor ceremony then needs a real indoor fallback rather than a tent and optimism.
- What it costs — Room rental alone at the venues here generally runs between roughly $1,200 and $5,000 — Missouri Botanical Garden charges $1,200 for the Boxwood Gazebo and $2,900 for its larger ceremony gardens, Third Degree Glass Factory runs $2,000 midweek up to $4,000 on a Saturday for a four-hour event, and Sculpture Hall at the Art Museum is $4,500 midweek and $5,000 at weekends. These are fees for the space only, and the catering and bar minimums attached to the hotels, the museum and the Garden are what actually set the bill — the Art Museum's is the one to plan around, at $15,000 on food and beverage, three times the rental it sits on top of.
Once the venue is settled, the next thing most couples deal with is telling everyone. A digital wedding invitation carries the address, a map, your timings and a live RSVP on one link — which matters more than usual when guests are travelling to St. Louis and need directions, and plenty of notice.