Planning a wedding in Connecticut
The marriage license must be issued by the registrar of the town where the ceremony takes place rather than where you live, both people have to appear in person to apply, and the ceremony must happen within 65 days of the application date — a Deep River wedding means a trip to Deep River's town hall. State-park properties carry rules the private venues do not: Eolia rents only from March 1 to December 23, and between Memorial Day and Labor Day its functions cannot begin before 5 p.m. Guests flying in generally land at Bradley International north of Hartford, but Amtrak's Northeast Corridor stops at New Haven, Old Saybrook, New London and Mystic, which is usually the simpler route to a shoreline venue.
- When to marry — September into the first half of October is the strongest stretch — dry air, warm afternoons, cool evenings and the inland foliage turning — with late May and June the second window, before the humidity of July and August.
- What it costs — Venue fees alone land between about $4,000 and $13,500 here — $4,500 to $8,000 at the Wadsworth Mansion depending on the date, $4,500 to $7,000 at the Branford House, a flat $5,100 at Eolia, $6,000 to $13,500 at Saltwater Farm Vineyard — with the caveat that those are room-and-grounds numbers only, and wherever catering is in-house the per-head figure (the New Haven Lawn Club starts near $150 a person) ends up the larger half of the bill.
Once the venue is settled, the next thing most couples deal with is telling everyone. A digital wedding invitation carries the address, a map, your timings and a live RSVP on one link — which matters more than usual when guests are travelling to Connecticut and need directions, and plenty of notice.