Planning a wedding in San Sebastián
Spain will not marry you on a visit: a civil ceremony needs one partner registered as resident in the municipality and a file opened at the Registro Civil months ahead, so couples flying in almost always marry legally at home and hold the San Sebastián ceremony as a symbolic one. The date then has to dodge a small city's calendar — the film festival in September and Semana Grande in mid-August fill the hotels and push rates up, and Donostia has far fewer beds than Bilbao an hour west. Weather is Atlantic rather than Mediterranean: sirimiri, the fine drizzle, can arrive in any month, so a venue selling an outdoor terrace should also have a covered one, which is why Mirador de Ulía's roofed terrace and the Aquarium's indoor halls get booked by couples who have read the forecast.
- When to marry — June and September are the dependable months, warm enough for the terraces and either side of the August tourist peak, though late September competes with the film festival for hotel rooms.
- What it costs — Venues here quote per guest rather than by hire fee — La Perla lists event menus at roughly €40 to €60 a head — and the restaurants and wineries price privately once date, numbers and the drinks package are fixed, so no honest all-in figure exists for the city as a whole.
Once the venue is settled, the next thing most couples deal with is telling everyone. A digital wedding invitation carries the address, a map, your timings and a live RSVP on one link — which matters more than usual when guests are travelling to San Sebastián and need directions, and plenty of notice.